Monday, November 17, 2008

Bang!

That is the sound of a door shutting!

I just got an e-mail from the agency. She talked to the b-mom today who now says she wants an open adoption. I am not a fan of open adoption for a multitude of reasons. I am great with letters and photos through a third party, but not total open adoption. I know that is not a popular view, but add it to the list of my not popular views!

Plus the bmom liked a family that she had already sent a profile on. So they are having a conference call on Wednesday with that family. This bmom hasn't even seen our profile, I don't think.

As I was just discussing with a friend, why does God place these desires so long before the fulfillment?

3 comments:

  1. missyMonday, November 17, 2008 at 5:29:00 PM CST

    I find myself asking the same question.

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  2. Bonky's MomTuesday, November 18, 2008 at 9:18:00 AM CST

    Ugh. I'm so sorry. Frustrating and confusing beyond words. Sigh!

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  3. Jeremy and Kamina JohnsonTuesday, November 18, 2008 at 9:40:00 AM CST

    Good question! I've been asking that for a long time now too. I know part of the reason it is happening for me, but it isn't the only reason things are taking so long.

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